Tender

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couples photo swiping app

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Tender

Tinder but it's only pictures of my wife and I can only swipe right

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#couples app#photo swiping#partner photos#ios app

1,030points
263comments
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Top 1%of 2025 by points

How HN took it

CuriousMostly questions and neutral comments

37 positive, 85 neutral or asking, 6 mixed, 33 critical, out of 161 comments about the project. Thread score +0.09.

Idea: 16 for, 22 againstExecution: 0 for, 6 againstPricing: 1 for, 1 againstDesign: 1 for, 1 againstPrivacy: 0 for, 1 against

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What HN said

What people liked

  • Wholesome and fun idea for couples

    From 3 comments
    • This is great. I set it up and was conspicuously swiping in bed. My wife is all hey, what are you doing? I’m all nothing.. put the phone down on the dresser. No, let me see your…
      K0balt on HN
    • This is adorable and made my day!
      sapphicsnail on HN
    • Love the idea! Congrats on launching and being #couplegoals!
      rolandog on HN
  • Polished frontend

    From 1 comment
    • i clicked expecting a joke but was not expecting this quality of frontend. kudos!
      evenzero on HN

Objections

  • Android not available

    From 2 comments
    • Can't try because Android phone best phone, but I already have a request. Can we get messages? It isn't that uncommon where I live to have several instant messaging apps, and…
      hengheng on HN
    • Why this sweet kind of app is not on the android! Please remind you that there are plenty of couples in android too.
      mynameisjoseph on HN
  • Photo album loading issues with shared albums and cut-off view on iPhone 13 mini

    From 2 comments
    • Hmm I granted access to my photos then selected an album but it says "No photos found" after. It also says "PhotoManager has 0 photos" and "DisplayedPhotos has 0 photos". I chose…
      fotta on HN
    • The view is cut off on iPhone13 mini https://space55.xyz/files/tmp/tender_screenshot.jpg
      slmjkdbtl on HN
  • Possible Tinder trademark issues

    From 1 comment
    • Great idea but cue Tinder trademark lawyers in 3… 2… 1…
      jenders on HN

Requests

  • Android version

    From 3 comments
    • Why this sweet kind of app is not on the android! Please remind you that there are plenty of couples in android too.
      mynameisjoseph on HN
    • Brilliant. Can't wait to prank my gf. Waiting for the andriod
      BouncySpud on HN
    • Joined the android wait-list
      oceansky on HN
  • Left swipes or multiple profiles

    From 2 comments
    • Feature request: Can we have multiple profiles? So the user can do one set of photos with one girl, another set when with another girl. Maybe have the app recognize nearby…
      dotancohen on HN
    • Downloaded the app and paid for premium. Still no wife. Devs pls fix.
      impish9208 on HN

Questions

  • Whether it uses face recognition to find spouse photos

    From 1 comment
    • Does this use Apple's face-recognition tech to automatically populate pictures of your spouse, or do you have to add them manually? I was under the impression that third-party…
      squokko on HN
  • Whether it supports polycules

    From 1 comment

Alternatives named

  • Kinder baby name app

    From 1 comment
    • In a similar vein, we used "Kinder", which is like Tinder except it's for choosing baby names - it shows you names that both you and your partner swiped right on.…
      rkangel on HN
  • StumbleUpon

    From 1 comment
    • StumbleUpon2? > StumbleUpon was a website, browser extension, toolbar, and mobile app with a "Stumble!" button that, when pushed, opened a semi-random website or video that…
      lesuorac on HN

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