CupidWithFriends

Web and SaaS

dating

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CupidWithFriends

Weekend project, fun spin on dating. Only friends edit your profile

cupidwithfriends.com

#dating#friends#wingman#facebook login#dating profiles

200points
54comments
#74of 1,739 in 2013
Top 5%of 2013 by points

How HN took it

MixedNo clear lean

8 positive, 14 neutral or asking, 5 mixed, 6 critical, out of 33 comments about the project. Thread score +0.07.

Idea: 5 for, 2 againstDocs: 2 for, 1 againstDesign: 1 for, 1 againstPrivacy: 0 for, 2 against

The thread, comment by comment

Each row is a top-level comment and its replies, in HN's order. Select a cell to open that comment on HN.

positive neutral or mixed critical about another commenter or something else the maker

What HN said

What people liked

  • Concept of friends as wingmen is clever and fresh.

    From 3 comments
    • Honestly, I think this is a brilliant idea for a few reasons, but the most significant can probably be explained by this real-life comparison: Consider two scenarios. a) You go…
      aggronn on HN
    • This is a great idea.
      ballstothewalls on HN
    • That's really cool! I have worked along the lines of making a wiki-style profile for everyone (http://wikisapien.com/) but the whole dating angle gives this site a neat hook that…
      rfurmani on HN
  • Copy and quotes are funny.

    From 2 comments

Objections

  • Requires Facebook login and exposes friends' data.

    From 2 comments
    • This. "CupidWithFriends would like to access your public profile, friend list, email address, custom friends lists, birthday, current city and your friends' relationships,…
      daave on HN
    • Is there any way to demo / use this without FB? (I understand why you want to connect to FB though)
      niggler on HN
  • Landing page doesn't explain the product.

    From 2 comments
    • Landing page says nothing about the product. How about some information before forcing people to log in?
      orangethirty on HN
    • Right, I'm totally confused who this product is for. Is it for people who want to date, or for people who don't want to date but want to edit their friends' dating profiles? How…
      tantalor on HN
  • Friends may write jokes or untrue profile content.

    From 1 comment
    • This idea is great in concept, but has been tried before in several versions and has yet to gain traction. I believe in the social arena, no one has found a viable solution yet.…
      hojoff79 on HN
  • Fake Facebook accounts could be used to game it.

    From 1 comment

Requests

  • Add messaging between users.

    From 1 comment
    • I love this concept. Your app seriously needs a few things though. 1) You have to be able to message people on a dating site, none of this coming soon button. 2) You have to be…
      Cmccann7 on HN
  • Add search and filters.

    From 1 comment
    • I love this concept. Your app seriously needs a few things though. 1) You have to be able to message people on a dating site, none of this coming soon button. 2) You have to be…
      Cmccann7 on HN
  • Allow sign-up without Facebook.

    From 2 comments
    • Do you offer anything to people who won't connect to Facebook or whatever?
      ben0x539 on HN
    • Is there any way to demo / use this without FB? (I understand why you want to connect to FB though)
      niggler on HN
  • Add photo upload.

    From 1 comment

Questions

  • Can profiles be hidden from non-permitted viewers?

    From 2 comments
    • Is the profile that's edited by those who have your permission to see you visible to others who don't have your permission to see you?
      genwin on HN
    • I think your project is quite nice, but I'm an extremely private person, and don't wish to be found by random folks I went to high school with or be stalked by ex-es. So, some…
      18pfsmt on HN
  • Is it creepy to receive messages from a dating site you never joined?

    From 1 comment
    • That's great, but won't it be creepy to get messages from a dating website you never signed up to? Or is the person whose profile you're editing asked to give permission before…
      MasterScrat on HN

Alternatives named

  • MySingleFriend

    From 2 comments
    • There's been a UK version of this around for a while now: http://www.mysinglefriend.com. I know this because it has been advertised quite a lot in the popbitch newsletter but…
      JDGM on HN
    • See also: http://www.mysinglefriend.com/
      afandian on HN
  • datemymate.co.nz

    From 1 comment
    • we built a whole site several years ago round this concept - www.datemymate.co.nz (bit outdated now, but you get it)
      alhaigh on HN
  • sawyouatsinai.com

    From 1 comment
  • Wikisapien

    From 1 comment
    • That's really cool! I have worked along the lines of making a wiki-style profile for everyone (http://wikisapien.com/) but the whole dating angle gives this site a neat hook that…
      rfurmani on HN

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